Update
U'd think that after all i said i'd actually tell P that i don't wanna see him anymore. Noooo, he called again this afternoon, it went something like this:him: so u re still sick???
me: yeah
him: so r u going out tonight cuz i wanna see u??
me: i can't go out, i wanna be feeling better for tomorrow night
him: but i wanna see u
me: aren't u working tonight??
him: not sure...
me: ok well anyway call me later ...when u finish
him: when i finish the shopping that am doin now?
me: NO when u finish work (11pm)
him: what if am not workin, can i call u earlier then? do u wanna do something??
me: u know what, just call around 10. but i won't see u i have to rest
him: ok. what happened to u last night?? i kept on calling, u slept early?
me: ya i did, i've been sleeping non stop i really wanna feel better asap
So not true, i was out until 3 am partying :)Bottom line is i just can't bring myself to tell him i can't see him, i hate confrontations. I know he's gonna come up with all kinds of arguments and i"m just not ready to do that...
posted by LUX @ 12/30/2005 06:44:00 PM
3 Comments:
just be honest with him. tell him the truth and you won't have to have this dread hanging over you. it might not be comfortable but it'll be well worth it.
good luck!
I wanted to tell him but he just makes me feel bad and he s nice to me so that makes it that much harder to do anything. but that s it, am gonna tell him for sure today or tomorrow.
that goes with the obsession of that guy for u. Perhaps that made u little bit worried abt telling him the truth n it is coz of ur sentiments for the friends n these are honest sentiments n however hard u might have tried at that time that guy wud nt have understood a bit n eventually a rude shock had to be given to him means a rude way to say no to him n that perhaps wud have hurted him n hurted u too but there was no other way n one just wished that had the guy understood ur feelings he still wud be ur friend.. it happens.
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