Friday, February 10, 2006

Valentine Has A Thing For Me

It's friday, my favorite day, I finally get to relax this week end...or not. At exactly 8:30am this morning, I got Valentine's day candy. Very sweet thing! Thanx D.M
Now, I don't even want to start thinking about V.day; I usually make a big fuss about it and it almost always turns out a big flop. So this year, I didn't make plans. It's weird, I was telling a friend of mine, that for the first time I'm whatever about the whole thing. Don't get me wrong I still like the whole idea, but I'd rather have it every day, all year long instead of ONE day. Like what, girls should feel special one day only??? How crazy is that? I want to feel special everyday, to be honest, one day just doesn't do it for me.
The thing is, most of us start celebrating in the evening only, so let's say you go out for dinner, which is gonna be at least 2hrs, plus desert, because for onc you're taking your time, enjoying each other and perhaps the food. By the time you finish it's 10:30pm-11pm, so you probably, go home exchange gifts ...Then it's already late and you've gotta get to bed because you have to wake up early. And that's the part I hate.
In the past, many a time, by the time dinner ended I was so tired that I literally crashed on the sofa. Honestly, nobody wants to go through all the trouble of planning a big thing if the gf's gonna be doing sleeping beauty, live. But, I was a lucky girl because it happened that my ex didn't take it so badly, considering how excited I was pryor to the sleeping part.
But, I've had my share of V.days. From the apartment filled with tiny candles with my gifts right in the middle, to the double date thing ( a no-no) to the "we're all single, let's go party instead".
M, hasn't mentioned V.day but I'm presuming he doesn't even know it's coming up which is alright by me, I know he's busy that day and the next even more so I'm not expecting anything from him. Maybe we'll do something this week end instead, we'll see. When I told my friend he probably doesn't know it's Vday she said I should dump him. I said no, I'm not gonna dump a guy who's overall good, because he probably doesn't know about Valentine's day. Euhh, I stopped being that shallow a while ago.
Conclusion, this year I am not doing anything. Or should I say I am not planning anything and not expecting anything to happen. But I assume you probably know me by now, and you must've guessed that I don't really mean that. wink wink:).

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